Addressing the Audience

Am struggling with exactly how to address the reader. At times I write in third person, such as "the lady does". At other times I write in second person, "ladies, you should" and still other times I write in first person, "when we dance, we". To compound this issue, I mix tenses, past, present, future, and those names I cannot remember from high school English like future past present. Maybe I will leave the clean up of this mess to version 00.03.